A Piece On Perfection- It’s Not Self-Love
A Piece On Perfection is an article about the human tendency to be afraid of imperfection. This article discusses making errors, coming to terms with them, letting go of fear, and discovering how to pursue our aspirations.
Perfectionism: What is it?
Perfectionism: It is a multifaceted concept that embodies a systematic and meticulous approach to tasks, aiming for flawless outcomes. It is often viewed as a driving force that cultivates greatness and excellence. Perfectionists, individuals who exhibit this trait, are characterized by their relentless pursuit of flawlessness in all aspects of their lives. They set exceptionally high standards for themselves and others, often going to great lengths to achieve them. This mindset can be both a source of motivation and a source of distress, as the relentless pursuit of perfection can lead to anxiety, stress, and dissatisfaction. However, when channeled effectively, perfectionism can lead to outstanding achievements and personal growth.
Perfectionism stands as a widely recognized cultural ideal, often perceived as a standard to aspire to. The term “believe” is strategically used in this context, highlighting the subjective nature of this ideal. Perfectionism is not merely an external standard imposed by society but is also a deeply held belief system within individuals, influencing their attitudes and behaviors towards achieving flawless outcomes.
In contemporary society, the pursuit of perfection is often praised, while imperfections are looked down upon. There is a widespread desire for others to be flawless, with employers expecting flawless performance from their employees and parents expecting nothing but the best from their children. Perfectionists strive for excellence in both their personal and professional endeavors.
The perfectionist’s high standard
Considering how strongly it appears to be a trait of high quality, is perfectionism an occasional or common flaw?
I don’t think so.
It was created by humans and is relevant to me. The notion of perfection exists. It seems like the perfect circumstance. Nevertheless, things are as they are now. The illustration reflects the reality of each situation, making the concepts of perfection and imperfection interconnected.
Now, this is not to suggest that being a perfectionist is always the optimal choice. I argue that our pursuit of perfection may impede our capacity to experience joy. The core goal is achievable with or without being a perfectionist.
Being a perfectionist, on the other hand, makes it difficult or impossible to simply accept and love oneself without conditions, even when a desired goal is not met. And when our expectations are not satisfied, we become unhappy or find it difficult to rejoice fully. In reality, we are really fortunate to be able to stay in the Present Moment at all times. When we are perfectionists, our minds are always creating plans, fretting about the future, and grieving previous failures. Due to these traits, numerous perfectionists are discontent because they feel they will never perform tasks well enough to experience satisfaction.
Finally, we can
This suggests an existential paradox, meaning:
“How can a perfectionist experience complete happiness, self-love, and enjoyment?”
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Kiersti writes on self-love and personal development professionally. Over the past ten or so years, she has studied self-love and personal growth. Visit https://womansdailyneeds.com/ to learn more about what she does, and like her on Facebook at https://facebook.com/womansdailyneeds to keep up with her.